Monday, June 8, 2009

Episode 4: Tom from Ramble Redhead Show & Singer/Songwriter Tom Goss

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Episode 4 features a coming out story and interview with Tom from Ramble Redhead Show. Tom has been doing his podcast for over 4 years and has completed nearly 300 episodes. You can check out all of the podcasts on his website at You can also find his podcasts in iTunes.

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Tom Goss' "Back To Love" is a collection of edgy alt/pop songs that are literally about love—not always romantic love, but the many faces of love. He has built on the success of his first national tour with acclaimed singer/songwriter Eric Himan in 2008, as well as the production and release of his first video, which was featured nationally and eventually rose to #2 on MTV LOGO’s The Click List.

"I wanted to create something that was instantly accessible," says Goss. "Something that would touch a wide audience, and something that was fast and clean but also carried a concrete message."

As a gay man, he wanted to deliver a message about societal and religious perceptions of what love means to a gay person, as well as his family’s love and failed love, including the divorce of his parents. Goss also learned a lot from his recently deceased grandfather, whom he says loved his grandmother “more than I have ever seen anyone love.” He adds that “Back To Love” breathes speaks, and aches like nothing I have ever done before.”

Goss, who grew up in Kenosha, Wisconsin, moved to DC in 2004 to enter Catholic seminary in hopes of becoming a priest. After that didn’t go as planned, Goss later found himself through his charity work and through his partner, and began to make music a full-time ambition. His debut, album, Naked Without, was released in 2006 and was followed by Rise in January 2008.

Goss plans to hit the road in support of Back To Love, delivering the message of his new album to a wide range of listeners. “I want people to listen to "Back To Love" and leave with a sense of hope and love greater than before,” says Goss. “I want to start conversations about love and loss, anger and forgiveness, hope and fear, but most importantly integration, of self and of each other. And at the same time, I want to deliver the best batch of songs that I possibly could.”

You can find more information on Tom’s music and concert dates on his website "Back to Love" is also available on iTunes. From that we get “Til the End”.

On May 28 radio hosts Rob Williams and Arnie States spent more than 30 minutes making crude and dehumanizing comments promoting child abuse against transgender children. It began when they discussed a story about an Omaha family supporting their transgender child and her transition.

After GLAAD, the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation issued a call to action, the radio station finally called back and promised Rob and Arnie would respond to their offensive segment.

GLAAD also spoke with with radio host Dawn Rossi who defended transgender people on the highly problematic segment.

On their follow-up show, Rob and Arnie failed to apologize for their remarks. GLAAD re-issued the Call to Action, and LGBT advocates made their voices heard through social networking and thousands of people from around the world contacted KRXQ and their advertisers. After nine advertisers pulled their ads, the radio station finally took notice and they suspended the show until Thursday June 11th. For the most up-to-date information visit

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  1. I may have been hurtful with something I said on the RR comment thingy, sorry about that. I recommented saying:

    "Sorry for any upset I caused. I'm a stupid teenager and my family isn't at all religious or homophobic - so I cannot possibly understand."

    Apologies, I came across as a judgmental twat and I'm not like that at all.

    - Zac

  2. Thanks Zac - I just responded over on Ramble Redhead's site. I hope you had a chance to look around my site and listen to an episode or two of Nathan Outloud. :-)

  3. I subscribed via iTunes out of guilt now :D

    Just kidding, sure - I'll give it a listen. I usually like personal journals but the idea of "sharing stories" interests me. It's very zine-like.

    - Zac

  4. Hi Nathan -
    I found your site via RambleRedhead. Great interview and I love your voice!!!
    Welcome to the podosphere honey

    xo kb

  5. I have one problem...I don't subscribe to podcasts through I have to manually download every episode on my ipod touch...
    Please can you make it so we can download the episodes through other podcatchers so I don't have to manually do it. (which is easy just put a direct link to the mp3 instead/as well as the itunes link.)

  6. Thanks Kim!! I am so glad you enjoyed it. :-)

    Scott - I will do that... Thanks for the suggestion and sorry for the trouble!